If you have multiple pets and one is good at causing mischief, consider how your attention is divided in your home. Most often, the “good” pet is ignored because the high-maintenance pet takes up so much of your focus. The same can be true if you have a new puppy, kitten, or even a new baby. The well-behaved pet is just so darn easy that they often get overlooked.
If this sounds familiar, don’t feel guilty, it happens all the time! But now that it’s brought to your attention make sure you reward your easy pet too. Otherwise, you may end up with a bit of sibling rivalry going on. This “rivalry” could manifest itself in different ways, depending on your pet. Your cat may start “missing” the litter box, your dog may start chewing your shoe, or the “good” pet could get listless and depressed. Again, if this happens in your household, don’t fret; it’s an easy fix. You’re more than halfway there just by recognizing the problem.
Maybe you are in the habit of giving the new puppy a stuffed Kong to occupy some of his energy. This is a great idea, but that sweet soul lying by your feet may like one too! Or the active pet gets more playtime or walks to wear her out, and your laid-back dog doesn’t need to be worn out daily. That doesn’t mean he wouldn’t enjoy a nice quiet walk! Or perhaps you’re busy training the new puppy to potty outside or to sit – training takes a lot of time. Your calm dog would probably love learning a new trick, especially if it includes training treats. If one cat is always in your lap and tapping you for attention (some pets are more needy), your quiet cat snoozing under the bed would like a snuggle too!
Take this article as a little nudge to reach out to your quiet pet. Life is short, and you need to celebrate all your pets every day, even when life is busy, the household is active, the baby is crying, or work deadlines loom. We don’t always have time for a long walk in the woods, but a quick potty stroll, a hug, or a treat will let your buddy know you treasure them just as much as the active, more demanding pet.So spend a bit of special time with that dog at your feet or the cat that gazes into your eyes; you’ll be glad you did, and the attention break is good for both of you.
