That’s code for a highly sensitive cat! Just like highly sensitive people, some cats can be easily stressed. They can be readily overwhelmed, shy around new people, and take longer to recover from social time.

Why is your cat so sensitive? Well, it could be one of many reasons. Some cats have had negative experiences with people in the past, which makes them careful now. Many cats are very sound sensitive and will have adverse reactions to loud sounds. If your cat was feral at some point, she could be skittish toward people. Some cats are just naturally reticent.

You can help your shy feline be more comfortable by employing some of these ideas. First of all, never force Fluffy to interact; if she isn’t ready, be patient, earn her trust, and be sensitive to her needs.

Provide a safe space for her. If Fluffy becomes overwhelmed, she’ll need a spot that is her own. This may be a box to hide in, a bed to hide under, or on top of the fridge. If you have adopted a new cat that’s shy, give her a single room to hang out in and explore until she is more comfortable; the run of the entire house will probably be overwhelming to her at first.

Create positive experiences with household members using food. If your cat comes out of hiding, reward her with yummy treats. Keep it low key and don’t force her to be petted or get on your lap. Just pass her some treats when she gets near you.

If your cat likes to play, that too creates positive experiences for her; try and find the time every day to spend a little playtime with her. But again, let her decide when the game begins and when they end. When she decides she’s had enough, give her a little food treat as a reward for playing.

Don’t force any new interactions with people or animals. When you have company over, let her hide if that’s what she wants to do. She may come out to visit with your friends eventually. And if she doesn’t, that’s ok too. If you have other animals in the house, don’t force her to interact with them. Most likely, Fluffy will at her own pace, but not all cats need to play with the dog to be happy.

If your cat likes petting, great! This will create a positive, relaxing experience, and purring is calming for a cat.

We have experience with sensitive cats. We’ll come in and quietly give your cat fresh food, water, and a clean litter box. If your cat is timid and hides, let us know where her hiding spots are, and we’ll make a quick check on her to be sure she’s safe. We’ll also monitor her bowls and litter box to ensure they are used. And of course, we’ll be quiet in your home to keep Fluffy happy. Many shy cats will come out to see us after a couple of visits, especially when they see we are not forcing them out of their comfort zone. We’ll let Fluffy decide how much interaction she wants and follow her lead.

So celebrate and accept your shy kitty; she’ll likely be a loving and loyal companion once she warms up!